The role of parents in a two-parent household
Welcome!
Being a parent in a two-parent household can bring a lot of joy, but it’s also hard work and challenging at times.
In this short module (about 15 minutes to read and watch videos), other parents, and the practitioners who support them, share their experiences and what they’ve found helpful. At the end of this module there is a summary of key messages and activities or ‘things to think about’ that you can save or print. On the final screen there are links to recommended services and websites for more information, resources and support.
Key messages
Parents in two-parent households say there are many benefits. But there are also challenges and disagreements sometimes, especially when you’re both often juggling the competing demands of everyday life.
You each bring different strengths, knowledge and views about parenting, which are likely a result of how you were both parented yourselves. It helps to be curious about each other’s values and ideas, and to aim to be ‘on the same page’ as much as possible.
Big differences in parenting values and styles can lead to tension or conflict. What’s important is how you resolve differences and handle disagreements to reduce negative impacts on your children and your relationship.
Taking care of yourself is important too. When you take responsibility for your own physical and mental health – and support your partner to do the same – you’re also supporting your child’s mental health and wellbeing.